Copper thought your keys might be stuck. He'd read it wrong. No worries Margery, he and I sorted it all out. LOL!! I was as lost as you were. LMAO!!!
The needle comment can be giggled at, but I hope the information I gave you helped any. We might have very different styles. I'm not into lessons and am self taught having inherited my abilities. A lot of my styles that work for me get scoffed at, and even worse, toffee-nosed. (Stuck up, snobbery etc.)
I know there are certain techniques that teachers and professionals like to use, and I've gotten into arguements with one fellow, a friend of my husband. He swears up and down to the point that he refuses to let me play for him, and he even discounted my singing ability, and refuses to hear it too. (I'm damned good, better than my piano playing.) He believes that no one without lessons can be worth anything, and that the russians do it all the best.
I digress, Margery. Take the techniques from your instructor, but if your fingers simply won't do it, you will have no choice but to alter your playing to get your fingers to get the scales right.
If your fingers won't play as taught and you work it out yourself, what's your teacher going to do? Smack you on your head? I doubt it. Even concert pianists will make their piano their own. As long as you get the sound right, and the timing, and whatever else you need, do what feels good, and what works.
I hope that was a good enough pep talk. Margery, I send you great commendation for trying to do your best, and for asking for help. It shows a great strength of character, a humble attitude, and we her at "My Piano Friends" really enjoy people like you on our site.
Why don't you join? We'd love to have you aboard.
Hopefully TTY Soon,
Broccoli